Metal fan since my teens. Love the classics... Maiden, Dio, etc. Over the last couple years, between satellite radio and internet radio I started listen I to some new stuff. Death Punch, Machine, In This Moment, etc. Probably heard Nevermore but not real familiar. Friend of mine has a symphonic metal band that is amazing if you like female vocalists. Check them out at TyrannyofHours.com .
And about the nagging wife... I've been married 20 years, and it's a miracle I haven't killed her. Kidding. Mostly. The difference between wanting them dead and actually doing it is 20 to life. Which coincidentally is the same sentence if you stay married.