Total Male Optimization "People who say it can't be done shouldn't interrupt those that are doing it"
Total Male Optimization "People who say it can't be done shouldn't interrupt those that are doing it"
Been taking the herbs a few days now and doing the workouts. Was feeling a boost of libido all day from the horny goat weed and just met some girl from tinder who offered to give me head. Anyways I met up with this girl pulled into a parking lot, she started sucking and I just could not get hard at all it was embarrassing. I think it was mostly performance anxiety cuz I’ve had sex with my ex hundreds of times including oral and the first time with her I couldnt get hard either but after I got more comfortable and opened up to her I could. Idk this was just an embarrassing experience for me, I wasn’t too attracted to the girl but head is head. Anyway anyone have some tips on combatting performance anxiety. I have another date on Sunday and this girl is actually hot, she’s been sending me nudes and stuff so I’m thinking something’s gonna do down after our coffee date.
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I need a rebound to get over my ex and can’t be having this shit happen again especially with the hot girl I’m meeting Sunday. So if anyone has tips on combatting performance anxiety let me know, thanks.
You need to be in a place where your anxiety is minimized otherwise your brain will be your own worst enemy. Try some breathing/meditation prior to meeting up with her. But given the fact that you have no problem having sex and this has happened before, it's most likely all in your head.
And you don't NEED a rebound.....you dont' need any woman, period. They are there for your pleasure. Try and reframe the situation. It is what you let it be, everytime.
It's no big deal, it's just sex.
Total Male Optimization "People who say it can't be done shouldn't interrupt those that are doing it"
Yeah you’re right man, I’ve been mostly depressed about this breakup as we were together for 2 years and it’s just like all this shit hit me at once like starting the protocol with a water fast and having to take a semester off from school to do it and then breaking up with my gf at the same time and having no friends around cuz they’re all at school has been tough. I don’t need a rebound but I’d like to fuck around with some other chicks. I’ll take your advice on the meditation and I know it was just in my head because I was stressed.
Keep on fucking!
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