I completely understand what you are saying, and I agree. I myself, whenever the time may come will only commit to a marriage if I have the mindset on making it last, and doing my part to make it. Being that finances can be a major issues couple fight/stress/divorces over, I guess I have the mindset, lets just take that out of the way before hand, and know that no matter what any future ryhigh's and my nephews will be taken care of despite any personal relationships. Lol I may be wrong, but atleast I have the option to make changes on my trust if my opinion changes. I guess I wont ever know till the time comes where my opinions become tested.