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[Thanksgiving]

Entropy

Thanks for this post. As an avid reader of this forum I would agree with your opinions.

One thread does get kind of jumbled, a sub forum for diagnostics might help with organizations.

I would love to contribute to this forum as much as possible. I've mostly been a reader because I feel like a student more than a teacher.

Martial arts and reading books have really helped me physically and mentally. Also I feel like swimming has been great for cardio and blood circulation as well as bone density.

[Cdsnuts]

Hahaha^ you added the sig xD


Also CDs yu fucked us by being so good at this recovery everyone wants in lol. I have a feeling it's only gonna get worse. We need to find a way to only have people post in the threads related to it.

It is going to get worse. Much worse. it starts with a trickle, then turns into a flood. I can tell you where the major leak has sprung from:

5 alpha victim posted this in my PH recovery thread:

**** "That list that I came up with I gathered from this I'm cured thread. I just went through every post.

If it's not dead on with the vitamin list he took im sure it's very close.

He now recomends new T boosting hetbs for the T booster rotation.

He curruntly to this day cycles over twenty diff herbs in a 3 week cycle and says he feels better now than he did when he posted his recovery. I found a new website that he uses where he is helping three other PFS guys follow his methods.

Only prob is he makes it cleAr that he does not PH and most of the people on it. He also does not like thinking about this PFS stuff as it brings back bad memories. I have not had that much luck communicating with him about this on the new website he's on for these reasons." ******

He's also been posting things in that thread, incorrectly so, as if they had come directly from me.

I really can't stand drama, especially the internet version, but this kind of pissed me off. I was alerted to this yesterday by another forum member.

I'm hoping we can nip this in the bud....NOW. Although I'm not sure how.

People have been donating their valuable time to help this guy, and this is how he repays everyone. Does he not think he's going to be flooded with PM's asking what website he's been coming to to get this info? I'm pretty sure he specifically says in another thread how he "won't tell anyone about this place."

We have a tight group here. That's what I love about this forum. There's no bullshit here. That's because WE keep it that way.

I know this is coming across kind of strong, but there is a very good reason why Entropy, English and Myself had a bad feeling once this trickle started.

I'm all for helping people, but you should also help the people back that are helping you. One hand washes the other type deal. What he did was dirty. Really, I have no one to blame but myself. If I would have had the forethought to change my screen name when I first signed up years ago, this problem wouldn't exist.

And, for the record, it's incorrect to say that I don't like the people at PH. There are plenty of good guys over there fumbling their way through life because of the hand they've been dealt. It's just that the site in general, as a whole, is a complete ball of negativity not conducive to growth and healing.

I don't appreciate him putting words in my mouth either.

[Ape McGrapes]

make a small sub section.

[Cdsnuts]

make a small sub section.

I think if that's the way to go, then the forum members could vote on it, seeing as they're the ones who will be answering questions and having to read the posts.

Just to put it in perspective, PH has over 3500 registered members. More then double what we have here. The recovery post was viewed over 85,000 times.

You guys have to be sure you want to do this.

[entropy]

Definitely a small sub section. I don't mind helping guys out but the majority of "recovery" comes from helping yourself, learning how your body responds and actually putting the effort required in. There's no magical quick fix..

Edit - I resent that "Helping three other people" . English and myself busted our arses to get to where we are and we didn't have any more information than the thread cdnuts left behind and our initiative.

[BBG]

Actually..you'd be surprised.
When I stop jerkin off, and don't watch porn and only fuck my girl..all those things come back and I don't need stimulation other than my thought or her wearing yoga pants. It doesn't take much when you don't do that, at all...ATLEAST for me.

That was the "mental" stimulation part haha

I rarely get random boners... but if I'm sitting in class and think of whatever girl I'm with, yeah I'll get one. I think at 26 that's normal.

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Well, it's easter so I ain't doin shit for nobody. I'll work on it tomorrow though...

[Thanksgiving]

Sorry about bringing this up. I feel criminal for posting this. I would like to connect with people who can help me but I don't want to flood this place and turn it into a new PH.

[entropy]

Sorry about bringing this up. I feel criminal for posting this. I would like to connect with people who can help me but I don't want to flood this place and turn it into a new PH.

Honestly buddy you aren't the problem. 90% recovered before you show up here. You're intelligent, respectful and realise the problem as well as some of the other guys here. I think you'd be a welcome addition if you developed a passion for some of the other stuff we like. The problem is a tonne of people joining, asking questions without contributing and risking giving up what's a safe spot for a couple of us to chill with some real bros and not focus on the crap we're dealing with.

[tallstraw]

Wtf is PH? I keep trying to figure it out. But damn I hope it doesn't become like that. Otherwise there's gonna be a need for a few more mods, ones that understand the vibe of the forum.

[tallstraw]

That was the "mental" stimulation part haha

I rarely get random boners... but if I'm sitting in class and think of whatever girl I'm with, yeah I'll get one. I think at 26 that's normal.

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Well, it's easter so I ain't doin shit for nobody. I'll work on it tomorrow though...

Oh I thought you meant touch. I still get NORB's, but if I don't jerk it, i don't need any serious stimulation, the trigger gets pulled off easy stuff like I listed..by if I am jerking, it takes actual stim to get a result. I think there is serious stuff behind the porn is bad for you movement..and not from a religious standpoint. From a "it takes very little porn and stimulation to delay what your normal response would be with a real chick. But if you were to have sex the same amount of times the response doesn't change" if you really try and compare, you'll probably come up with a similiar conclusion. I've had this talk with tons of dudes, and seen it on reddit and shit.