Quote Originally Posted by Maxout777 View Post
Yeah I agree with TubZy, I would just pop a PDE5. You're going to have anxiety for awhile about this - I've had unassisted sex for months now and I STILL in the back of my head never feel sure going into it. It's going to take some time to get over the baggage. But if you know you're still struggling to keep an erection I would hit the cialis. It'll be better for your emotional state to perform well than to not be able to perform and get super down on yourself.

Plus, I've read in posts where Cialis actually helps balance the Test/Estro ratio and maybe even boosts Test some? You can check out the studies online, I read up on the Peak Testosterone website on their cialis page. Not a terrible drug at all!
It's exactly this....the baggage is what is going to bother you more than anything. You fail a couple times and that shit gets stuck in your head and played on repeat every single time you go to do the deed. Rather then focusing on your woman, her pleasure, her body, the way she is feeling, you're thinking is my dick gonna work. That's the quickest way for your dick not to work. You lose track of what you should actually be focusing on. This is where learning to calm your mind and centering yourself comes into play. When you get good at it, a couple deep breathes and you're back into the present moment, where you need to be. This is a skill that gets stronger with time and the more you use it. Definitely something that is useful in life for all moments where you need to be centered.

I use this and so have others with fantastic results: http://www.centerpointe.com/?aid=374012. Of course you don' t have to have this, it just makes learning this skill a little easier.

So much of PFS damage is done in the beginning when you crash and then you're left with the mental baggage from this which is why this thing persists so long for alot of guys. Get your mind in control and half the battle is won.