Originally Posted by
coppersocks
Update time.
A day after my last update myself and my siblings flew my mum out to NYC for her birthday. I took enough herbs to last me along with Vit D. Was a good time all in all but I'm dealing with bouts of anxiety, fatigue and emotional flatness which was extremely uncommon for me before. Walking round the city tired me out at times and when I would get back to the apartment I'd feel like I'd just want to sit in my room and be by myself, but by in large it was a good time. I did have a few on my last night there with a friend who I hadn't seen in ages. When I got back my hormones felt all over the place, my sleep quality whilst good in NY took a massive nosedive again and I was getting hotflashes, sweating a lot and my libido was pretty high. I was like a girl on her period basically. I think it was the combination of the long journey and the couple of drinks I had on the last night.
Anyway things seemed to have calmed down these past few days, I still get fatigue and brain fog but my libido baseline seems to be higher than most at this stage, meaning that I have't had shrunken or tingling genitals in well over a month and can mostly get hard by thinking on it- sometimes with manual stimulation, though throughout the day my day to day thoughts are rarely sexual.
I feel my biggest problems at the moment are mental. Over the course of my twenties I became a socially confident, quick witted and outgoing person. I generally feel dulled since this and this gives me bouts of anxiety and shutting my self in and avoiding most social situations. At times I also struggle with enjoying things that I used to love doing and the two problems just exasperate each other. An example of my anxiety is that this past week I've felt a slight tingling in my extremities, particularly in my hands and arms. I haven't really though much on it but a couple days ago I looked up what this could be a symptom of, MS was listed and it just sent me down a spiral of getting extremely worried about the prospect of developing MS! It's probably ridiculous I know though I still might get it checked out as it persists. But some days I have really good days or hours at a time, but I do feel fragile mentally and sometimes exhausted by looking how far I still have to climb.
The program helps, without doubt. I don't know where I'd be without it mentally giving me a plan to set my eye on and physically my baseline continues to rise slowly and with the occasional jump up and slide down. I really have to work on my day to day thought patterns however. I'm so up and down that I it will probably hinder my progress at some point and could already be doing so, I mean my libido though better would probably be better still if I just didn't have that anxious feeling taking up most of my thoughts.