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    Quote Originally Posted by Master Mal View Post
    I'd say it's mostly there, but I'm kinda glad it's *slightly* less sensitive? I used to pop pretty quickly and now I can enjoy sex longer now. But I was super horny and overly sensitive before PFS, so now I feel normal. It's honestly a blessing. My overactive libido was more trouble than it was worth. I still get hard for flirting and physical activity super easily and can go multiple rounds in one night, but I rarely walk around with an erection anymore because I can't stop thinking about sex. I still love sex. I still get turned on by shit. I'm fucking on a regular basis. I'm just not overwhelmingly horny. I'm actually really grateful for it.

    To put this in perspective, I went 9 months with my downstairs bits being completely numb. Now it feels normal and I'm thrilled.

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    I thought this was going to be a sticking point for alot of guys as it almost was for me in the beginning. Once I considered myself healed, I was so sensitive and so horny that staying power was an issue......at first. Especially with no fap.....it was almost comical how quick I'd blow. I've found that if I backed off on the herb dosages, used the bathmate prior to sex (about three or four hours before sex) and had sex often, I naturally over came the issue. I was up front with my partner at the time and told her that she was the first partner I've had in a few years because of a condition caused by an adverse drug reaction. One, she was happy that I wasn't a total man whore, which had I not been knocked down by pfs, I would have been, and second, she was happy to "help" get things working proper again. We shared my progression from minute man to stallion and it really brought us together.

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    Giving It All For A Full Recovery

    I have this problem with my 1st round. The protocol + no fap make it extremely tough, I canít even zero in on the moment, I have to think of something else...Iím Always doing mental gymnastics to last longer. 2nd & 3rd round I go however long I want, but that comes at a small price of erectile quality not being the same as the first, slightly. I donít even think girls notice things like that so much, I could be wrong.

    Super sensitive cause before sex I do everything ( rotation herb or Andro pill depending if Iím on cycle or not ; PDE5; Bathmate ; Thorís Hammer) itís like one big Jizz Stack lol.

    How long should sex be though? The foreplay and everything make the whole experience longer, but whatís a good amount of time for when your actually IN there? I know thereís no set time, but I hear mixed answers.

    & no Iím not recovered, I donít even know where Iím at % wise, Iím just doing this forever anyway and never coming off.


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    Quote Originally Posted by RickTheRuler View Post
    I have this problem with my 1st round. The protocol + no fap make it extremely tough, I canít even zero in on the moment, I have to think of something else...Iím Always doing mental gymnastics to last longer. 2nd & 3rd round I go however long I want, but that comes at a small price of erectile quality not being the same as the first, slightly. I donít even think girls notice things like that so much, I could be wrong.

    Super sensitive cause before sex I do everything ( rotation herb or Andro pill depending if Iím on cycle or not ; PDE5; Bathmate ; Thorís Hammer) itís like one big Jizz Stack lol.

    How long should sex be though? The foreplay and everything make the whole experience longer, but whatís a good amount of time for when your actually IN there? I know thereís no set time, but I hear mixed answers.

    & no Iím not recovered, I donít even know where Iím at % wise, Iím just doing this forever anyway and never coming off.


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    I got the same problem, my dude. It's a massive pain in the ass.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zardoz View Post
    I got the same problem, my dude. It's a massive pain in the ass.
    Nothing Iím ashamed of dude, I prefer this than being on the opposite side of the spectrum which is super numb & unable to get it up even with PDE5ís.. been there..

    I would like my first rounds to be at least 5 minutes from the time Iím in there though,
    thatíd be great.

    Nofap is a blessing and a curse cause around girls you get libido spikes and just their aura can turn you on.. I felt that way less when I would watch a lot of porn, if I ever got that feeling it was being around a super hot girl only....now any girl on the looks scale can make me a bit horny or at least think about sex given the right time.

    The Curse is just the quick trigger.. & Iím not doing the old jerk off in the morning before she comes over..fuck all that numbing myself., imma figure this out. Cause I really love & appreciate sensitivity.. I think this is how weíre supposed to be before porn came about...I just want it to last though.


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    Quote Originally Posted by RickTheRuler View Post
    Nothing Iím ashamed of dude, I prefer this than being on the opposite side of the spectrum which is super numb & unable to get it up even with PDE5ís.. been there..

    I would like my first rounds to be at least 5 minutes from the time Iím in there though,
    thatíd be great.

    Nofap is a blessing and a curse cause around girls you get libido spikes and just their aura can turn you on.. I felt that way less when I would watch a lot of porn, if I ever got that feeling it was being around a super hot girl only....now any girl on the looks scale can make me a bit horny or at least think about sex given the right time.

    The Curse is just the quick trigger.. & Iím not doing the old jerk off in the morning before she comes over..fuck all that numbing myself., imma figure this out. Cause I really love & appreciate sensitivity.. I think this is how weíre supposed to be before porn came about...I just want it to last though.


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    I wouldn't say there is a set amount of time to be inside her. It really depends on how fast she gets off. The chicks that cum fast are fine with short spurts because they finish quick. The chicks that take the longer amount of time are going to be disappointed if they aren't "released" often enough. So it really is girl dependent. My last relationship I could take her from start to finish before I even came.....I would say a few minutes of sex and she'd be done. That's not counting foreplay, just intercourse. The chick I'm with now, she takes longer.....At the risk of sounding lame, I actually have to stop and take a minute or two rest because sometimes I get winded from fucking.....lol. Like damn girl.....come the fuck on already....lol.

    Really what it comes down to is making sure she is satisfied. If you can do it in five minutes or a half an hour, as long as your both happy, it doesn't matter what the clock says. Personally I always found it suspect when guys would talk about fucking for HOURS.....hours?....really? You kidding me? I love sex as much as the next guy, but there comes a point when either she'll start wondering when it's going to end, or you will. In reality, fifteen minutes of straight fucking is a solid round as far as I'm concerned.

    I've gotten pretty good at controlling my releases over the years. As with anything, practice makes perfect. I'd like for you guys to try this breathing technique next time you're hittin it.....When you feel yourself getting to the point of no return, before you get there, start taking long slow breathes in for seven seconds and then exhale for seven seconds. Over and over again. You'll notice that the urgency of getting ready to burst fades into the back ground. Try that and let me know how you guys make out. I've found it works very well at keeping yourself ahead of your release. For the most part, I hold off until I finish her, then I'll let myself finish.

    With this new girl, we settled into a nice little system of love making. She'll usually blow me until I finish, that's the first round. The second round is all about getting her off first. If we do a third round, she's real easy to get off because she's already finished and is super sensitive and I take longer because the third nut is always the toughest, if it happens at all, which sometimes it doesn't.

    The point of all of this is it's different on a case by case basis. Where ever you fall on the spectrum, as long as your making sure she's finishing a good amount of the time, you're going to be the man in her eyes, and really, that's all that matters.

    Concerning porn, I don't use it anymore....haven't in years because of what it does to the brain. On the rare occasion I do masturbate, I use my imagination, like your supposed to. This helps keep the magic there when you have a real woman in front of you. Too much porn is overly stimulating and causes major problems if abused. There are young guys these days that grew up on internet porn who can't perform with "live" women because they're so geared towards spanking it in front of a computer screen, the real thing isn't enough for them.
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    In my experience honesty really is the best policy - I've been finding more and more that being up-front and communicative is the key to making sexual encounters and relationships satisfying and rewarding for both parties, despite what society's drilled into many of us.

    I've been pleasantly surprised by how understanding most girls have been since I started being open about it. I'll generally stop them just before things go down south in bed, and tell them that I had an adverse reaction to a prescription drug that messed up my hormones, so things don't really respond properly down there at the moment, and I haven't yet met a girl who's walked out or gotten in a huff because of it. If you're still suffering ED, the release of that pressure can sometimes be just enough to tip the scales and help you get it up, and if not, there's still plenty of fun you can have even with penetrative sex removed from the equation, as any bi or gay woman will tell you. I generally don't tell them what the drug was specifically - if you're cagey about having taken a hair-loss drug though, you could say it was an anti-depressant, as there's much less stigma around taking those, and the sexual side effects are fairly well known (although their degree of permanence is still pretty controversial). Hell, some of the women you hook up with might well have suffered sexual side effects from such drugs themselves.

    If you're someone who struggles to last very long, a lot of women will be flattered that they can make you come so quickly, as long as it's not something you're defensive or awkward about it. Several times I've told a women to slow down, that they're turning me on too much and they're going to make me come too quickly, and they've told me to go right ahead. You get brownie points for at least admitting it and trying. Just don't go falling asleep on them afterwards without giving them their turn.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Marquis View Post
    In my experience honesty really is the best policy - I've been finding more and more that being up-front and communicative is the key to making sexual encounters and relationships satisfying and rewarding for both parties, despite what society's drilled into many of us.

    I've been pleasantly surprised by how understanding most girls have been since I started being open about it. I'll generally stop them just before things go down south in bed, and tell them that I had an adverse reaction to a prescription drug that messed up my hormones, so things don't really respond properly down there at the moment, and I haven't yet met a girl who's walked out or gotten in a huff because of it. If you're still suffering ED, the release of that pressure can sometimes be just enough to tip the scales and help you get it up, and if not, there's still plenty of fun you can have even with penetrative sex removed from the equation, as any bi or gay woman will tell you. I generally don't tell them what the drug was specifically - if you're cagey about having taken a hair-loss drug though, you could say it was an anti-depressant, as there's much less stigma around taking those, and the sexual side effects are fairly well known (although their degree of permanence is still pretty controversial). Hell, some of the women you hook up with might well have suffered sexual side effects from such drugs themselves.

    If you're someone who struggles to last very long, a lot of women will be flattered that they can make you come so quickly, as long as it's not something you're defensive or awkward about it. Several times I've told a women to slow down, that they're turning me on too much and they're going to make me come too quickly, and they've told me to go right ahead. You get brownie points for at least admitting it and trying. Just don't go falling asleep on them afterwards without giving them their turn.
    My philosophy is always to go down on them first. After they got off they're basically cool with whatever.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Master Mal View Post
    I'd say it's mostly there, but I'm kinda glad it's *slightly* less sensitive? I used to pop pretty quickly and now I can enjoy sex longer now. But I was super horny and overly sensitive before PFS, so now I feel normal. It's honestly a blessing. My overactive libido was more trouble than it was worth. I still get hard for flirting and physical activity super easily and can go multiple rounds in one night, but I rarely walk around with an erection anymore because I can't stop thinking about sex. I still love sex. I still get turned on by shit. I'm fucking on a regular basis. I'm just not overwhelmingly horny. I'm actually really grateful for it.

    To put this in perspective, I went 9 months with my downstairs bits being completely numb. Now it feels normal and I'm thrilled.

    Lemme know if you have any other questions.
    I fucking love this dude already. I'm thirty so my libido isn't what it used to be and honestly thank fuck for that. I have much better discipline nowadays but I'm still working on it.
    Cervix stabbing ftw.

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    Quote Originally Posted by entropy View Post
    I fucking love this dude already. I'm thirty so my libido isn't what it used to be and honestly thank fuck for that. I have much better discipline nowadays but I'm still working on it.
    Man I'm 42 and if I stay on the prescribed herb dosing protocol my libido now is too much. Even so at half or a quarter of the herb dosage. These days I've been sticking to the adaptogens and maybe only hit a T booster once a week if that, over wise I'm obsessed with sex.
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    my libido is probably about the same it was before. I go to sex clubs and I'm always the horniest most sex crazed if not like top 3-4 of the guys that go.

    I like to nut like 1-2 times a day. Only thing is though my erection quality isn't always the bomb but I think it's because I damaged part of the base of my dick when this stupid girl fell back on my dick when on top. She could have totally avoided it but she's a dumby and thought it's okay to fall back on it to indicate that she's tired. She's also an asshole and won't even respond to my texts and is a total bitch lol. Wouldn't mind sueing her lmao. Thinking of using the bathmate again to maybe recover it from what I read online that spongey tissue isn't recoverable unless you do surgery right away and the doc I saw said just rest it and didn't recommend surgery.

    I do think the bathmate works directly by working on the spongey tissue though so might be worth a shot!

    one of the signs of this is that when I use cialis I'm a fucking beast so I think my libido is high just my erections sometimes without it are like 80%
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