Erection issues?

[longBallLima]

I've been dating a 36-year-old, formerly deprived housewife. She lived with a husband who gave her a regular sex life for about the first year they were together. She was lucky to get it four or five times a year thereafter. She's an absolute nympho. We fuck sometimes five or more times a day. And we never miss a day. I'm 31 years old.

I love sex and so does she. There is no shame in being primal, dominant or feeling like you MUST have sex and MUST perform. To me, fuggin' is mandatory. There is no two ways about it.

You need to lay off of hormonals for now and get a blood test. In the meantime, if you need the help of some Viagra or Cialis, grab it without hesitation. No person should ever have to compromise their sex drive or libido, and no man or woman should ever have to live with the pitfalls of a partner's sexual dysfunction, love or no love. There is always a solution, or many ways to try to fix these issues.

i disagree with this, me and my wife are young enough that that is not an issue, but i hope when im in my 50/60s and have some issue that prevents me from getting it going for a month, my wife doesn't leave me and i hope i wouldn't be so shallow as to leave her. burly's TRT logs is what first got me thinking about this and i admire his marriage moving forward despite his current health treatments (i hope this is not out of line, burly)

[Jelisej]

I would say that sex is very personal thing, different people have different desires, habits etc...
What is normal for one is not normal for another person. And things are going down a bit with age, but then thats normal, and one side always have lower libido than other but if people are right thats not an issue.
If two people are connected just by sex- I would say thats very shallow relationship.
IMO sex is not an olyimpic sports and I dont have to compete with anyone and to reach certain goals.
Sometime after 21 (more-less) guys have some reduction in libido/erection quality but if they start viagra.... macca.... etc at that age they will become mentaly insecure and dependent on supps... and when you doubting yourself- thats worst thing.

its always best to find person with similar libido, sometimes guys marry much younger women and then they turn into clowns to keep their prize happy. Also sometimes "normal" guys merry one of those women who are jumping from cock to cock, and they end up feeding the biscuits...
Majority of women have a dip in libido as well sometime after 30, so if someone libido is low you can better date one of those, rather than getting dissapointed all the time.

Well, thats my 0.02...

[tallstraw]

Nah, I have a high libido, and can normally go for a while. I think it was the exemstane just crushed my estro. But who knows. I'll get a bloodtest next weekend, since you think that would be a much better test of my value ranges to help us figure this out. Starting monday, it's all steaks, chicken,rice, green beans and broccoli. 2013 was supposed to be my year, but I've been side tracked by partying and slaying randos. I'm gonna drop the partying. Pick up some creatine after my blood test and get on good nutrition and exercise. No excuses. By putting it inwriting, I'm gonna make sure I stick to it, because I know you guys will hound me, and not let me slack or live it down if I do.

I had a really good night of sex last night. So I'm very sure I'm fine. Just a random occurance I freaked out about too much. But I'm just trying to catch it early and stay ontop of it so it doesn't become a problem. I'll update this, once I get a bloodtest, and we'll see what to do from there.

[longBallLima]

so, one is to assume you "do sex whenever you want"?

lol


this is getting ippy-like

[Freepressright]

i disagree with this, me and my wife are young enough that that is not an issue, but i hope when im in my 50/60s and have some issue that prevents me from getting it going for a month, my wife doesn't leave me and i hope i wouldn't be so shallow as to leave her. burly's TRT logs is what first got me thinking about this and i admire his marriage moving forward despite his current health treatments (i hope this is not out of line, burly)

No, the problem is that far too many people undervalue sex, and many don't know what good sex is because they've never had it. Once you find it, there is no going back from it.

I would go to the ends of the earth to fix a sexual dysfunction issue, because a healthy sex life is important, essential rather, to a healthy marriage or relationship. If you can have a rocking sex life, it provides a wide range of benefits beyond just the sex. To play the "that's shallow" card is utter bullshit.

I love my girlfriend. We connect on far more than just our sexuality, but we're so much alike in it and we both have been through partners who went stale on us and REFUSED, yes REFUSED to do anything about it. We suffered for years at the behest of a partner who lost interest and REFUSED to search for a solution.

I was always the bad guy with my wife when I'd raise the issue of her loss of interest. She was never willing to honestly and openly discuss it. It became a major issue that pitted us against each other in the end. My girlfriend prior to that was a sex kitten, until domestication, and then she died on the vine in that sense.

I'd have been able to live with it much more easily had they given a flying fuck enough to look into what was wrong instead of dismissing it and acting like it was something I just had to live with. And don't think I didn't go to the ends of the earth in search of solutions aside from them taking initiative. I got tired of the rejection, and it ended the relationships.

Sex is incredibly important to my girlfriend, and if that means I have to have a Viagra infusion pump installed in my ass to keep my dick working to keep her happy, it's worth it. She has pledged the same to me.

If one of us falls ill and we're physically unable, that's something entirely different. But we're at least willing, for each other, to search hard for solutions.

/END RANT

[Jelisej]

Tiredness does affect both libido and erection quality, so if (tallstraw) is training much harder this year as I asume by his post that could affect it, add party and alcohol. Alcohol increase estrogen (as liver stops clearing E2 in order to get alcohol out of system), exemestane obviously lowers E2- so there are few factors that could be improved.
If you were tired for a while after your cycle/PCT it does not mean your hormones have not recovered, tiredness is side-effect of almost anything. Any vitamin and mineral deficency will cause tiredness. Milion other things...
Your bloodworks next week will not show how your usual hormone levels look like, it will show how your levels look like 7 days after you stop using exemestane. And there is whole process that happens after cesation of any hormonal meds.
Using any hormonal supp is like throwing a rock into water- water goes here-and-there in waves couple times, each time with less intensity till it eventually settles down.

[tallstraw]

How long would you recommend I stay away then? You said 8-9 before, but never gave a unit of measurement.


Longball, I hope you didn't mean me. I pray to God I never sound or get close to Ippy level. If I do, I need a reality check.

[Jelisej]

8 weeks.

[longBallLima]

No, the problem is that far too many people undervalue sex, and many don't know what good sex is because they've never had it. Once you find it, there is no going back from it.

I would go to the ends of the earth to fix a sexual dysfunction issue, because a healthy sex life is important, essential rather, to a healthy marriage or relationship. If you can have a rocking sex life, it provides a wide range of benefits beyond just the sex. To play the "that's shallow" card is utter bullshit.

I love my girlfriend. We connect on far more than just our sexuality, but we're so much alike in it and we both have been through partners who went stale on us and REFUSED, yes REFUSED to do anything about it. We suffered for years at the behest of a partner who lost interest and REFUSED to search for a solution.

I was always the bad guy with my wife when I'd raise the issue of her loss of interest. She was never willing to honestly and openly discuss it. It became a major issue that pitted us against each other in the end. My girlfriend prior to that was a sex kitten, until domestication, and then she died on the vine in that sense.

I'd have been able to live with it much more easily had they given a flying fuck enough to look into what was wrong instead of dismissing it and acting like it was something I just had to live with. And don't think I didn't go to the ends of the earth in search of solutions aside from them taking initiative. I got tired of the rejection, and it ended the relationships.

Sex is incredibly important to my girlfriend, and if that means I have to have a Viagra infusion pump installed in my ass to keep my dick working to keep her happy, it's worth it. She has pledged the same to me.

If one of us falls ill and we're physically unable, that's something entirely different. But we're at least willing, for each other, to search hard for solutions.

/END RANT

agreed with most points. my point is illustrated in your last paragraph there.

I think it is not bullshit to call shallow someone who would leave a relationship because the other partner has a physical condition that prevents them from having or wanting sex.

now, i agree, being in a relationship where theres just no desire from one side? yah, i'd leave it. physical conditions? I'd be by my wife throughout the treatment of said condition

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How long would you recommend I stay away then? You said 8-9 before, but never gave a unit of measurement.


Longball, I hope you didn't mean me. I pray to God I never sound or get close to Ippy level. If I do, I need a reality check.

lol it did sound ippy-esque and his tales of nocturnal activities and female conquests

8 weeks.



P.S:
I have to have a Viagra infusion pump installed in my ass to keep my dick working to keep her happy, I would probably change woman. it would be lot easier and cheaper.
And I would learn to play dominos, I suppose.

LOL too much truth here

[tallstraw]

Mine aren't lies ;D. But I hear ya. I'm mostly just trying to say how my quality of life was before I ever cycled.