Giving It All For A Full Recovery

[RickTheRuler]

I got the same problem, my dude. It's a massive pain in the ass.

Nothing I’m ashamed of dude, I prefer this than being on the opposite side of the spectrum which is super numb & unable to get it up even with PDE5’s.. been there..

I would like my first rounds to be at least 5 minutes from the time I’m in there though,
that’d be great.

Nofap is a blessing and a curse cause around girls you get libido spikes and just their aura can turn you on.. I felt that way less when I would watch a lot of porn, if I ever got that feeling it was being around a super hot girl only....now any girl on the looks scale can make me a bit horny or at least think about sex given the right time.

The Curse is just the quick trigger.. & I’m not doing the old jerk off in the morning before she comes over..fuck all that numbing myself., imma figure this out. Cause I really love & appreciate sensitivity.. I think this is how we’re supposed to be before porn came about...I just want it to last though.


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[Cdsnuts]

Nothing I’m ashamed of dude, I prefer this than being on the opposite side of the spectrum which is super numb & unable to get it up even with PDE5’s.. been there..

I would like my first rounds to be at least 5 minutes from the time I’m in there though,
that’d be great.

Nofap is a blessing and a curse cause around girls you get libido spikes and just their aura can turn you on.. I felt that way less when I would watch a lot of porn, if I ever got that feeling it was being around a super hot girl only....now any girl on the looks scale can make me a bit horny or at least think about sex given the right time.

The Curse is just the quick trigger.. & I’m not doing the old jerk off in the morning before she comes over..fuck all that numbing myself., imma figure this out. Cause I really love & appreciate sensitivity.. I think this is how we’re supposed to be before porn came about...I just want it to last though.


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I wouldn't say there is a set amount of time to be inside her. It really depends on how fast she gets off. The chicks that cum fast are fine with short spurts because they finish quick. The chicks that take the longer amount of time are going to be disappointed if they aren't "released" often enough. So it really is girl dependent. My last relationship I could take her from start to finish before I even came.....I would say a few minutes of sex and she'd be done. That's not counting foreplay, just intercourse. The chick I'm with now, she takes longer.....At the risk of sounding lame, I actually have to stop and take a minute or two rest because sometimes I get winded from fucking.....lol. Like damn girl.....come the fuck on already....lol.

Really what it comes down to is making sure she is satisfied. If you can do it in five minutes or a half an hour, as long as your both happy, it doesn't matter what the clock says. Personally I always found it suspect when guys would talk about fucking for HOURS.....hours?....really? You kidding me? I love sex as much as the next guy, but there comes a point when either she'll start wondering when it's going to end, or you will. In reality, fifteen minutes of straight fucking is a solid round as far as I'm concerned.

I've gotten pretty good at controlling my releases over the years. As with anything, practice makes perfect. I'd like for you guys to try this breathing technique next time you're hittin it.....When you feel yourself getting to the point of no return, before you get there, start taking long slow breathes in for seven seconds and then exhale for seven seconds. Over and over again. You'll notice that the urgency of getting ready to burst fades into the back ground. Try that and let me know how you guys make out. I've found it works very well at keeping yourself ahead of your release. For the most part, I hold off until I finish her, then I'll let myself finish.

With this new girl, we settled into a nice little system of love making. She'll usually blow me until I finish, that's the first round. The second round is all about getting her off first. If we do a third round, she's real easy to get off because she's already finished and is super sensitive and I take longer because the third nut is always the toughest, if it happens at all, which sometimes it doesn't.

The point of all of this is it's different on a case by case basis. Where ever you fall on the spectrum, as long as your making sure she's finishing a good amount of the time, you're going to be the man in her eyes, and really, that's all that matters.

Concerning porn, I don't use it anymore....haven't in years because of what it does to the brain. On the rare occasion I do masturbate, I use my imagination, like your supposed to. This helps keep the magic there when you have a real woman in front of you. Too much porn is overly stimulating and causes major problems if abused. There are young guys these days that grew up on internet porn who can't perform with "live" women because they're so geared towards spanking it in front of a computer screen, the real thing isn't enough for them.